Irakoze ni umukobwa w’imyaka 20 wa gatatu iwabo, akaba akundana n’umusore w’imyaka 25, ariko akavuga ko ababyeyi be batifuza ko yakomeza gukundana na we kubera impamvu z’imyemerere.Gusa ibindi bisobanuro bitangwa bigaragaza ko harimo n’ikibazo cy’inzego z’imibereho, hanze bakunze ibyiciro by’ubudeehe.

Umukobwa avuga ko bijya gutangira, umusore yabanje gukundana na mukuru we, Dorcas, ariko baza gutandukana nyine bitewe n’imyemerere. Nyuma yo gutandukana, Jeanette wari usanzwe aziranye n’umusore, yakomezanyije na we barakundana. Mukuru we abimenye amubwira ko atezemera ko bakomeza gukundana, abyinjizamo n’ababyeyi babo nkuko abivuga.

Jeanette na Dorcas ni abakobwa ba Bagabo Eliezer ubarizwa mu murenge wa Remera , Akarere ka Gasabo, mu Mujyi wa Kigali . Ubwo Jeannette yavuganaga na Bwiza.com kuri telefone yavugaga ko atunze iwabo batabizi kuko izindi bayimwatse, yasobanuye ko ari mu bwihisho kandi atemerewe gusohoka mu rugo, ndetse no gukoresha telephone. Yagize ati “Nakundanye n’umuhungu, wari warakundanye na mukuru wanjye, noneho baza gupfa iby’imyemerere, kubera ko hari ibyo umuhungu yabuzaga umukobwa gukora. Byaye ngombwa ko batandukana, ariko icyo gihe cyose navuganaga n’uwo muhungu, kuko urumva yakundanaga na mukuru wanjye, nari muzi. Noneho batandukanye, nza kubimenya ko batandukanye, ari umuhungu ubwe ubimbwiye. Nza gukora ubushakashatsi, mbibaza na mukuru wanjye wampaye amakuru y’uko batandukanye kubera imyumvire. Byarangiye ubwo nyine ntangiye gukundana na we.”

Irakoze avuga ko agitangira gukundana n’umusore, mukuru we yabirwanyije, ndetse akamubwira ko nakomeza gukundana na we ibintu bizaba bibi, abishyiramo n’ababyeyi be.

Nk’uko akomeza abisobanura, ngo ababyeyi be bagerageje uko bashoboye ngo bahagarike urukundo rwe na Niyigena Jean D’amour, ariko birabananira. Byageze aho umukobwa bamwambura telefone, bamubuza kuva mu rugo bagira ngo barebe ko yareka Niyigena Jean D’Amour, ariko biranga.
Umwunganizi mu by’amategeko wa Jean D’Amour , we na Irakoze bavuga ko Se w’umukobwa yabonye binaniranye yitabaza RIB, atanga ikirego cyakirwa n’Umugenzacyaha ushinzwe ibyaha birebana n’icuruzwa ry’abantu ( Human trafficking ).

Niyigena Jean D’Amour yahise ahamagazwa abazwa ku byaha byo “kuvogera urugo rw’abandi atabiherewe uburenganzira” no “gushora abantu mu buraya n’ubwomanzi agamije kubikuramo inyungu”, icyaha giteganywa kandi kigahanishwa Ingingo ya 155 y’itegeko No 68/2018 ryo ku wa 30/06/2018 riteganya ibyaha n’ibihano n’ingingo ya 24 y’itegeko No 51/2018 ryo ku wa 13/08/2018 ryerekeye gukumira kurwanya no guhana icuruzwa ry’abantu no gushakira inyungu mu bandi.

Icyo gihe, Niyigena Jean D’Amour yarabajijwe bamubwira ko aregwa na se wa Irakoze Jeannette ibyo byaha byavuzwe hejuru, kandi ko mu batangabuhamya harimo na Dorcas mukuru wa Irakoze Jeannette bakundanaga mbere.

Nyuma y’iryo hamagazwa mu bugenzacyaha, Niyigena ntiyafunzwe kubera ko nta bimenyetso bifatika ubugenzacyaha bwabonye. Nyuma y’ukwezi ahamagajwe n’umugenzacyaha, tariki ya 10/12/2020 umugenzacyaha Mageza Charlotte yohereje abapolisi basanga Niyigena Jean D’Amour mu mujyi kuri ATHENEE, aho akorera, atabwa muri yombi. Kuri ubu akaba afungiye kuri station ya polisi ya Kimihurura.

Bwiza.com yashatse kumva uruhande rw’ababyeyi ba Irakoze ngo yumve ukuri kwabo, ku murongo wa telephone ibajije Bagabo uko ikibazo cy’uyu musore giteye, mu magambo macye agira ati: “Ntabyo nkwiye kubazwa.”

Umukobwa yabujijwe no kujya ku Ishuri

Uyu mukobwa wigaga mu mwaka wa kabiri muri Kaminuza y’Abadivantisiti ya AUCA, nubwo abandi batangiye kwiga we aracyari mu rugo, kubera kutemererwa n’ababyeyi be gusohoka, kuva bamufungirana azira umusore. Avuga ko n’ubusanzwe ikibazo cy’uburenganzira bucye ari ikibazo gisanzwe iwabo mu rugo.

Agira ati “Nigaga muri Kaminuza mu wa kabiri, hariya muri AUCA. Ariko muri ubwo buryo, mbere yaho twari dufite ikibazo cy’uburenganzira bucye hano mu rugo, ntabwo twari twemerewe kuba twasohoka. Turafungiranye, ntabwo twemerewe gutunga telephone, n’ubu nyitunze mu buryo buhishe. Ntabwo twemerewe mbese bwa burenganzira bwose umwana agomba ku mubyeyi.”

Uyu mukobwa asobanura ko gukanirwa cyane byabaye kuri we ngo kubera ikibazo cy’uyu muhungu, mu rugo iwabo batashakaga bamushaka. Noneho bafata umwanzuro wo kumufungirana. Agira ati “ Ubungubu maze amezi ane ntasohoka. Amasomo abandi bana barayatangiye ariko ntabwo nkiga, kubera ko hagiyemo ikibazo cy’uyu muhungu baba nk’aho bahagaritse amafaranga y’ishuri.”

Uyu mukobwa ashimangira ko akunda uyu musore cyane, ko ndetse atagomba kumureka, nubwo ababyeyi be babigize birebire, bakamufungisha bamushinja ibyaha bitandukanye kugira ngo babatandukanye. Kugirango uyu musore abashe gufungurwa nk’uko Irakoze yabibwiwe, bamusabye ko yakwandika agasinya ko azahagarika gukundana nawe, Kandi we avuga ko atafata umwanzuro wo kumwanga kubera ko batamushaka. Agira ati “Ndamukunda cyane pe! Nubwo bamushyizeho dosiye ko yateje akavuyo mu rugo”.

Akomeza asobanura kandi ko kuva batangira gukundana mu rugo “baramuhamagaye baramwihanangiriza bamubwira ko atagomba kugera mu rugo. Nta n’ubwo yari yagera mu rugo. Ariko papa yagiye gutanga dosiye amubeshyera ko yageze mu rugo”, ngo yateje akavuyo none aho bigeze ubu ngubu, byarangiye bamufunze.

Uwunganira Niyigena mu mategeko Me Evarste, yabwiye Bwiza.com ko Niyigena Jean D’Amour nta kindi azira uretse kuba akunda umukobwa ababyeyi be batabishaka. Ibyo ngo bikaba bigaragazwa n’uko umugenzacyaha, mbere amurekura agataha, “yari yamusabye kwibagirwa burundu abakobwa ba Bagabo Eliezer, ko niyongera kumva bavuganye azahita amufata akamufunga”.

Uyu munyametegeko avuga ko Niyigena yemeza ko kureka uyu mukobwa byamunaniye, kuko atari kubasha kumureka kuko amukunda kandi umukobwa na we akaba amukunda, nk’uko bagiye babishimangira mu mabazwa imbere y’ubugenzacyaha.